Forgiveness often means extending empathy to others β but what about yourself?
According to Dr. Kristin Neff, a leading researcher in self-compassion, being kind to yourself is just as important when navigating forgiveness. π§ β¨
Self-compassion involves three key elements:
π« Self-kindness β Treat yourself with care, not criticism.
π€ Common humanity β Remember that imperfection is part of being human.
π§ Mindfulness β Notice your emotions without suppressing or exaggerating them.
These practices help you process pain without self-blame or avoidance. So when forgiveness feels hard or not yet possible β give yourself permission to pause, reflect, and honour your emotions. π